Life with a toddler means there is never a dull moment. And if you have two small children, buckle up because the ride can be wild. But I’m not complaining about it. I love having a one year old and a two year old. There are some good reasons to care for two little people in their prime toddler years.
What makes raising multiple small children so special
I could go on and on about why I love being a parent to multiple toddlers who are the same age (18 ½ months apart, to be exact). Although having babies back to back can sometimes get a bad rap, I’d like to highlight some of the brightest moments in my journey of parenting two toddlers at the same time. Sure, some days are hard, but I maintain that every bit of chaos is worth it for the love, joy, and pure fun that my two little ones show each other and our home every day. Here are some of my favorite things to do as a mom to multiple toddlers.
They learn so much from each other in their toddler years
It is often said that parents are our children’s first teachers. As a former teacher, he turned stay home mom, I’m very proud of that. But I sometimes wonder if I’m doing enough to provide my children with everything they need to learn and thrive.
Watching my two toddlers interact with each other is an incredible gift – they learn so much from each other. My one-year-old imitates my two-year-old’s speech, actions, and every movement. My two year old comes along Practice sharing, caring and all the soft skills we hope our children have. During their toddler years they are constantly learning and growing together. It’s a great advantage to be able to raise two toddlers at the same time.
When raising toddlers, playdates are an integral part of every day
I am firmly convinced that playing is the most important work of childhood – even in infancy. Seeing my first toddler play with my second is a dream come true. Of course, we all have to go through difficult, tearful moments together. Yes, ours Things are always a little messier in the playroom than with just one small child. We might be running out of space for the countless toys, books, and stuffed animals that inevitably accumulate with a one-year-old and a two-year-old. Other than that, my son and daughter always have each other to play with. And that surpasses everything.
As much as I love it Arrange playdates with our friendsI find peace of mind knowing that my children constantly benefit from each other’s company. They talk more and more every day and I’m excited to see how their play relationship develops as they become slightly older toddlers.
Toddlers and toddler games can teach us so many valuable lessons
Just as the heart grows with each new child, wisdom also multiplies. My one-year-old and two-year-old are constantly teaching me important life lessons as they grow up. For example, to give myself grace. I have two tiny humans who are very similar in age and are both completely dependent on me (for the most part). The truth is that almost every day I feel like I’m falling short in one way or another. Even if unknowingly, my toddlers constantly remind me to be gentler on myself. I’m only human, but somehow – in their eyes – that’s enough. They also teach me to be more flexible, prioritize and adapt, more than any other position I ever held before becoming a mother.
Toddlerhood is a magical time to share with someone else
Plus, getting a front row seat to my two toddlers bonding is just as magical. I don’t think I’ll ever get over how adorable my one year old and two year old are with each other. Seeing my firstborn share her sweet, quirky toddler personality with my son makes my heart so happy.
My daughter looks for her little brother first thing in the morning, who gets up early, and her whole being lights up when she sees her big sister approach her and give her a big hug. When one laughs, the other echoes with just as much innocence and joy. When one climbs into my lap to cuddle and tell me a story, the other follows. I always say that my children have their own secret language and I sometimes feel like an outsider looking in, but I don’t mind. I’m so glad my babies can bond from a young age. They truly enjoy each other’s existence and make my heart burst gratitude.
Who knows what my children’s future will hold in terms of their sibling dynamics. Right now, I’m enjoying every precious moment of being a mother to two little people living side by side in the midst of toddlerhood. Having multiple babies in a row can get a bad rap for many reasons, but I’m here to tell you that raising two toddlers of the same age isn’t limited to what you imagine. In fact, it is so much more. Life with a one year old and a two year old is a gift.
And I wouldn’t trade it for anything.
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